wow dad. way to make me fucking cry over nothing

so today, i decided, and told my entire family was my day to be exceptionally lazy.
not do a thing but relax and do what i want for once.
so dad come home and calls me selfish and lazy for doing what i said i was going to do
just because everyone else had left dishes sitting everywhere.
then when i explained that i am just having one fucking day to myself, he says "you have every day to yourself"
wow dad, way to proove how little attention you actually pay to my life.
i havent had a day where i didnt have to go somewhere and do something for well over a month.
just because i dont work full time doesnt mean i dont have shit to do. hell uni three FULL days, assignements added in, work both days on the weekend, then running around paying bills and picking up things for other people. then add in the fact i actually have friends who want to do things and i feel like a bitch if i continually turn them down.
where does time fore me fucking fit in there?! time where im not so fucking exhausted i cant do anything. time where im not being bugged by the entire family to do this and do that.
i dont get me time, unlike my father who sits around on the couch all weekend doing nothing, or if he is doing stuff, its because he chooses too, no one is forcing him to do it.

i wish people would bother to understand what they are fucking talking about. my dad has no fucking clue, and no fucking right.